I think that there is a misconception in this world in the way people think. It is about the word "special". why does something be special if it exists prior to our existence? This is the question that's been pecking my mind for a long time. I just arrived at something very interesting and provocative. Vivekananda's father said to him once, never to surprise at anything in this world. If something special to one is not to some other, how can it be so called "special"? So as it is also said that the beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, I just thought that it is totally an individual feeling about the thing which amuses and looks different though it has its existence out of the reach of our intellect or awareness.
When I imagine the spanning of the universe it ended no where and I am left all empty but with one thought, what lies next and the same continued to ring in mind, I can do nothing to find it out. It is just that there is no one qualified to answer me. I just happened to read in a news paper or a science journal that by 2040 we could be able to communicate with extra terrestrial beings what we commonly call aliens. In my view this is also not something special as we are a part of this universe, a very very tiny part. We can say it is a nibble of what we imagine about the total universe within and and beyond our reach. I cannot think that something is special. We do not know it, it is an easy theory. The first step of detachment. The secret is if one thinks that there is nothing special and surprising, then it would be easier to part from the bonds of this worldly things and feelings. That moment every thing and every one in this world will be treated equal manner by the beholder. Is this not true???? It justifies it self. It is a bit confusing to us to understand and stand by it.
Beginning is always difficult. It takes life to get on. Just cross the first line and every thing will be easy because either we develop interest or get used to it. It is success either way. So try and make your lives better and peaceful. You will get to know how far the relation should be sustained and what next. Do not lead lives like you do not know anything. Try to know what is beyond your life perhaps the other dimension of life. Try to talk to nature. Observe the cycles of the nature for it is ever revealing.
